& Workplace Safety Planning Tips
If you are in a violent relationship, one of the
most important steps you can take is to make a safety
plan both for home and the workplace. These plans contain
simple but critical steps you can take to increase your
safety while you deal with the violence you face in
your personal life.
Personal Safety Planning
- Memorize a Crisis Intervention number
- If you are in danger, dial 911
- You may also call the National Domestic Violence
Hotline at 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) for information about
services in your area.
- Be aware of local domestic violence programs and
other resources. Check in with them if you are confused
or unsure about what is happening in your relationship.
- Be aware of your partner’s abusive cues including
their demeanor, expressions, threats, actions, etc.
- Be aware of your own cues in reaction to your partner’s
cues, these can help you know when to seek a safe
place to stay.
- Talk with advocates and supportive friends and
family about the abuse before it continues to escalate
and occur again.
- you do not have to keep this a secret.
- ask about your options and what you can do
In case you have to flee, have the following available:
- important papers such as birth certificate, social
security cards, insurance information, school and
health records, welfare and immigration documents,
and divorce or other court documents
- credit cards, back account number and ATM cards
- some money
- extra set of keys
- medication and prescriptions
- phone numbers and addresses for family, friends,
doctor, lawyers and community agencies
- clothing and comfort items for you and your children
If you had the perpetrator evicted or are living alone,
you may want to:
- change locks on doors and windows
- install a better security system
- teach children to call the police or family and
friends if they are taken
- talk to school and childcare providers about who
has permission to pick up the children
- find a lawyer who knows about family violence to
talk about custody, visitation and divorce provisions
that protect you and your children
- obtain a restraining order
If you are leaving your abuser, ask yourself the following
- how and when can you most safely leave? where will
- are you comfortable calling the police if you need
- who can you trust to tell you are leaving?
- how will you travel safely to and from work or school
to pick up your children?
- what community and legal resources will help you
- do you know the number of a local shelter?
- what custody and visitation provisions will keep
you and your children safe?
- is a restraining order a viable option?
- If you are staying with your abuser, think about:
- what works best to keep you safe in an emergency
- who can you call in a crisis
- whether you would call the police if the violence
starts again? can you work out a signal with the children
or the neighbors to call the police when you really
- if you need to flee for a short time, where will
you go? think through many places where you can go
in a crisis.
- if you need to flee your home, know the escape routes
Workplace Safety Planning
At work, you may want to:
- save threatening emails or voicemail messages.
you can use them to take legal action in the future,
if you choose. if you already have a restraining order,
the messages can serve as evidence in court that the
order was violated.
- park close to the entrance of the building. talk
to security, the police, or a manager if you fear
an assault at work.
- have your calls screened, transfer harassing calls
to security, or remove your name and number from automated
- relocate your workspace to a more secure area.
- obtain a restraining order and make sure it is current
and on hand at all times. include your workplace in
the order. a copy should be provided to; the police,
the your supervisor, human resources, the reception
area, the legal department, and security.
- provide a picture of the perpetrator to reception
areas and/or security.
- identify an emergency contact person should your
employer be unable to contact you.
- ask security to escort you to and from your car
or public transportation.
- look into alternate hours or work locations.
- review the safety of your childcare arrangements,
whether it is on-site childcare at the company or
off-site. if you have a restraining order, it can
usually be extended to the childcare center.
adapted from the newsletter of Women's
Information for survivors can also be found at SAFE
For indepth information read the Survivors
Handbook (pdf. file)